The image above features Remo Berno’s baptism in 1953.
His godparents were Angelina and Vittorio Marchioro.
Photo supplied by the Berno family.
Sandra Semola nee Zampin spoke the words that are in the title of this blog as she reflected on her family and the importance of every one of her siblings having godparents or santoli. Sandra’s parents, Silvano and Amelia (nee Shaw) Zampin, had eight children and each one had different godparents who were mostly members of the first generation of Veneto market gardeners in the Lockleys area.

Sandra’s godparents were Vittorio and Angelina Marchioro and she remembered them:
They were great… we used to go and visit them just up the road here and the family used to go there on Sundays… they all stuck together, everybody had godparents, they all knew each other, and they’d all go to weddings, christenings or whatever parties. Or if Dad had a party in the shed, they’d be there, it was like a big family group… there was plenty of them.
(Sandra Semola nee Zampin, OH 872/44, 27 April 2017, 10)
Second-generation godchildren

In their interviews for the oral history project, second-generation narrators offered memories of significant relationships between families in the Veneto market gardener community, and these included the godparent bonds. Godparents reinforced the close and enduring connections of care between the first generation of market gardener families and created inter-generational bonds which were important for the Veneto families who did not have other relatives in Australia. In the absence of extended family, godparents became aunts and uncles. The role of godparents was the most significant of the internal formal bonds that paesani developed within the early community.
Godparents in the Catholic tradition
In the Catholic tradition, parents select significant adults and ask them to become godparents at baptism and confirmation to provide a loving presence and possible role as guardians in their godchild’s life. In the Veneto culture godparents were known as santole for women and santoli for men. A study of the godparent relationship in Calabrian families in Adelaide, comparatico, identifies a similar “family-type relationship based not on blood or marriage … “spiritual kinship” that connects the family of the child with the family of the godparent.[1]
Selection of godparents
Parents gave considerable thought to the selection of godparents for their children because of the close connections that were expected and would continue with the family.

Vittorio and Angelina Marchioro took the unusual step of choosing an Anglo Australian woman, Irene Destro, as godmother for their first-born son, Johnny. Irene’s husband, Attilio, had emigrated from the same village as Vittorio and had married Irene within a few years of his arrival in Adelaide in 1927. Although not market gardeners, the Destros were neighbours, and as Johnny Marchioro indicates, it was considered an honour to be invited to be a godparent, “When I was baptised, she [Irene] held me for the christening,” (Johnny Marchioro, OH 872/1, 21 July 2008, 28).
The image of the child being “held” suggests trust, intimacy and exclusivity in a role chosen by parents. The Marchioro family showed openness in giving the respected status of santola to an Anglo Australia woman who became a paesana (or a member of the community at Lockleys) through that relationship.

Johnny Marchioro’s godfather or santolo was Pietro Berno who, at the time of Johnny’s birth in 1940, was a single man. Johnny’s parents were asked to be santoli when Pietro and Antonietta Berno’s second son, Remo, was born in 1953.
Johnny maintained contact with his santolo even after the Berno families returned to live in Italy in 1969. When Johnny and his family visited Italy for the first time in 1975, he visited Pietro at this home in Riese Pio X.
The birth of children and selection of their godparents reinforced ties within the community that were often maintained beyond childhood.

For example, Diana Panazzolo nee Santin was born in 1951 and her godparents were Alberto and Elvira (nee Carraro) Berno. Diana continued to communicate with her godmother from the time she returned to live in Italy in 1969 until her death in 2013:
We were always brought up to remember them and respect them and give little gifts… She did the same as well.
(Diana Panazzolo nee Santin, OH 872/27, 18 October 2013, 22).
Zampin children and some of their godparents
As Sandra Semola nee Zampin said, all of her siblings had godparents who were significant as the individual child grew up. Some of the Zampin family are featured in this next section with quotes from their oral history interviews.

Virginia Rodato nee Zampin remembered her godparents were Marena (Eugenio) and Luigina Zalunardo nee Ballestrin.

Well, they used to visit Mum and Dad quite regularly… I was born and they bought me a beautiful outfit for the baptism, and later on, we still always kept in contact with each other and I used to visit them regularly when I got older. But unfortunately, she died just before I got married.
(Virginia Rodato nee Zampin, OH 872/43, 15 March 2017, 6)

Another of the Zampin sisters, Bruna Semola recalled that her godparents for baptism were Serafina and Attilio De Pieri who lived in the City of Adelaide and had lived on the mica mines in Alice Springs. (Bruna Semola nee Zampin, OH 872/39, 8 November 2016, 5)
Roma Bordignon nee Zampin spoke about her godparents, Elisabetta and Secondo Tonellato and said,
They were very good friends and we used to go a lot of places together like St Kilda and picnics… and they lived in a train off Frogmore Road…
I was quite jealous of that.
(Roma Bordignon nee Zampin, OH 872/41, 3 February 2017, 3)

When the last of the Zampin children, Peter, was born in 1953, he had a combination of godparents, Elisbaetta nee Gatto and Secondo Tonellato and Gino and Irma Berno. Sadly Peter was killed in a road accident in 1971.

Gino and Irma Berno, Silvano Zampin (holding Peter), Elisabetta and Secondo Tonellato.
Front: Christine and Virginia Zampin. Photo supplied by the Zampin family.
Baptism godparents and confirmation sponsors

When a child was confirmed at about eleven years, a sponsor was chosen and this role also assumed status within a family. In the following excerpt, Dino Piovesan speaks about the significance of both roles. He uses the general Italian masculine and feminine terms, compare and comare for confirmation sponsors, and the Veneto word, santolo, to describe the godfather relationship:
As far as the Italian community is concerned, that is a very important relationship, because if you ask someone to be compare for you, a sponsor for your child, that person, that family has a special significance after that, and they remain friends forever, shall we say. There was not so much a bond but a special relationship between those who were compare and comare … Gino Berno … was my santolo, the word santolo meant more than the name itself. He was the person to be respected, the santolo.
(Dino Piovesan OH 872/17, 23 September 2011, 11).
Connections within the community
The bonds within the community were continuously strengthened through a range of daily and seasonal interactions. For the Lockleys Veneto group, the most important bonds were the relationships, customs and conduct that stemmed from a collective history, shared language, culture, religious background, location and common occupation.


The majority of second-generation people interviewed for the project clearly remembered their godparents and the strong connections of these chosen adults with their families. The godparent relationship was treasured and respected as a life-long connection.
Madeleine Regan
11 October 2026
[1] Simone Marino and Giancarlo Chiro, “Family Alliances and ‘Comparatico’ among a Group of Calabrian-Australian Families living in Adelaide, South Australia,” Journal of Anthropological Research 70, no. 1 (2014): 111.
































